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Overcome Dental phobia - fear of dentists
Dentophobia – doesn’t
nearly everybody suffer this to some extent? One big problem is
that it affects how we receive help or attention which is necessary
for our good health and well being; it affects something we need
to do, not something we can easily choose not to do. The dentophobic
not only has a hard time, themselves, but they make it very hard
work for the dentist, who, after all, is trying to render help and
assistance in the field of dentistry; dentists are not counsellors,
wrestlers or magicians.
Wouldn’t it be
good if dentophobic patients could be given a natural form of help
to feel calm and at ease, to feel tranquil and comfortable, when
at their dentist’s practice or in the chair. Just one good
visit to their dentist would help break the cycle of unreasonable
fear and would help reinforce any suggestions that brought about
its passing. If you think this would be too easy or if you are wondering
if it would work for everybody, read on.
The root of dentophobia
is a fear of loosing control. Most people dislike the idea of loosing
control, to some degree or other but some people are far more insecure
than others; it is a fundamental character trait and their lives
are organised around it, which ironically makes them appear confident
and in control. The truth is that they are only comfortable when
they are in control and have a genuine fear of all experiences where
they are not.
We’ve all seen
Paul McKenna and, no, a person cannot be made to do anything they
don’t want to do. Anyone interested in seeing a hypnotist,
doing a show in town, knows that ten people are going to get up
on stage and shout that the Martians are coming or run around like
a chimp. When they buy their ticket, they are even closer to that
stage. When they are there they know that they could be one of those
ten people. When the hypnotist asks for volunteers, they volunteer
to go on stage, to shout that the Martians are coming or run around
like a chimp. They are doing this because they volunteered; they
wanted to.
In clinical hypnosis,
the patient is guided in relaxation until the body is so relaxed
that it is an unbelievably marvellous experience; the subconscious,
also, relaxes and so do its barriers. It is possible, if the patient
wants to do something, to make certain positive suggestions connected
with this thing the patient wants to do; if the person genuinely
wants to do this thing or make this change, these suggestions will
be adopted into the subconscious and become part of that person’s
character. This is hypnotherapy and usually takes place during one
session.
There is another form
of help that hypnosis can offer; this is hypnoanalysis. Hypnoanalysis
usually takes around eight sessions and is particularly useful where
a person’s problem has its cause way back in the time when
their character was being formed. There would have been an event
so frightening or, as a child, they would have made a misjudgement
which led them to be so embarrassed or guilty that the emotion attached
to that event was overwhelming; the subconscious would have felt
that this memory was too much for little Johnny or Joanna and would
have hidden it away, immediately. This is called a repression and
the adult John or Jo would have no idea of its existence and if
they were told about it, they would deny it.
The problem is that this
repression has made a part of their character. The subconscious
has been keeping it hidden, this has been extra work, and the subconscious
will need some kind of overtime payment. It takes this by giving
John or Jo a piece of abnormal behaviour; a phobia. To simply block
this phobia will force the subconscious to give John or Jo a different
piece of abnormal behaviour; it will have its payment, one way or
another. One way to clear the problem from its root upwards is to
guide John or Jo into hypnosis, let them discover when and where
this repression was made and allow them to re-experience it. This
time it all comes out and is no longer a repression; no need for
overtime pay – no phobia.
There are three main
character types. Some of us are straight down the line, one type
or another; some of us are a mixture of two or of all three types.
Two of the main types work well with hypnosis, one type does not.
The type which does not is like this because they “know”
what is going to happen and they do not want it happening to them;
if you try to explain the reality, they will not have it. This is
the insecure type who, most often, would be the dentophobics.
However, dentophobia
does affect many people. If a sample of dentophobics were offered
the suggestion that hypnotherapy, of some sort, would be of help,
the people from this character type would weed themselves out –
“Pah, let somebody else take over my mind, they’d make
me do something I didn’t want to. You must be joking.”
Those who were interested and asked for more information would probably
get on well with the help that could be offered in hypnosis; not
only removing the cause of their dentophobia but also bringing about
positive changes to their lives and gaining a deep personal understanding.
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